the FCA registers 0x28, 0x2C have been reassigned to
to FEXTNVM on i217, i218 and i219 so add Fnofca flag
and avoid writing the registers.
make link detection more robust on i217 by delaying the
phy status read after link status change by 150ms. we'd
otherwise get a "phy wedged" (power saving state?) and
not update the link status until the next link change.
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